Hi, my husband passed away two years ago, due to the circumstances surrounding his death and his actions before his death. I became very close to his best friend who has always been there for me and the kids.
During these periods, my husband’s best friend and I have become closer, and today, he called to ask for us to hang out.
I am not sure if this is the right thing for me to do , I am very uncertain…..i have heard about people dating their deceased husband or wife’s best friend. What do you think?
On the other side I feel that my husband still want me to happy and I can’t help this feeling that am betraying him. I guess I have some serious thinking to do!
You didn't specify if the man is married...if single or a widower, all good but check if the feeling is 50-50.
ReplyDeleteYes, more details abt d guy & also if the feeling is mutual. Your position as a widow makes u vulnerable 2 advances from d male specie & also ur husbands freind being aware of d 'circumstance' surronding ur husband's death makes u more vulnerable 2 him. Take dis 2 God in prayer He wld give u guidance, He is ur loving father & ur husband. Trust Him 2 direct u 2 ur Happiness, He knows it all.
ReplyDeleteOh my God! Kenny please this is happening to me, i am currently facing this problem now, he is not married, each time he comes around me, i feel like making love to him. please what do i do, as i already have feelings for him and my kids always want him around. someone help me please.
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@Chioma, check your feelings very well, it may just be lust. What happens if after ur first sexual encounter with him u don't have any feelings for him any more. Pray earnestly to God and ask him for direction. You may be feeling do because he always comes around. Try and avoid him coming to see you people for sometime, then you will know your true feelings, please don't have any relationship with him so you don't regret your actions. Have a blessed day.
ReplyDeletePls don't get into any relationship with him whether married or single. Its not a good idea at all. You still hold your husband in high esteem from your write up. Look up to God for direction and He will lead u right. Try and avoid situations where its just two of u alone. Always be in company of others when relating with him. Wishing you all the best.
ReplyDeleteHello dear. Truly, u need God's direction and grace @ this crucial time. If the guy is married, then it's a no-go area bcos the Bible and God definitely frown @ adultery.if he is single, then pray and make sure you hear from God on what to do. I don't see any crime in having a serious relationship that could lead to marriage once you're convinced that he is right for you! If you're however thinking of a fling......please flee from all evil appearance!
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