I have been praying for some time now to find some help and friend, was referred to this site today. Please take time to read this and pray and advise me if you can.
I have been married for 30 years and at the edge of my breaking point. My husband and I have no relationship, we live in a beautiful house but separated, he is in one part of the house while am in another, we haven’t slept in the same bed in over 3 years. We haven’t had sex in about 2 years and half now. He talks to me in a disrespectful manner and am tired of it.
My husband is a flirt, supposed Christian/ spirit filled, commits all sorts without any form of apology, we are supposed to be Christians and it didn’t start out like this. He committed adultery nine years ago and we have tried as much as we can to work it out, I also found out that he clubs and drinks in a daily basis.
Anytime I think that I’ve forgiven him, something he does or says will bring it up to my mind. The kids are the reason am still In the marriage and trust me, I have paid great price for it.
I honestly know that this is not the will of God for two Christians to live like this, we tried counseling but it didn’t work for us. I was getting tired of the ups and downs and no longer healthy for both of us.
I was at the point that Agape love was what we believed that will turn the marriage around.
Prayers changes things my Sister,hang in there.All homes, Christains or non Christians have issues.
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ReplyDeleteI dare say you are obviously the cause of your predicament. Your husband flirts because you are no longer the woman he married.You have obviously become a monster in his home.
Look back and retrace your steps.Dress properly and attractively and stop complaining,frowning,being too wise,doubting,suspecting,demanding,disrespectful and tired.
Be a woman to your husband because he is not gay and you cannot turn him into a woman. God is not the problem.You are the problem. Change yourself and you ll see how your husband will change.
Hi Emeka, i think you should read the story properly before passing the blame.
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